Hello readers! This article is Inspired by a verse called, “you are who you’ve been looking for”. Let’s love ourself more.
You are who you’ve been looking for.
Your capacity to love others is limited only by your capacity to love yourself. So, stop looking for more unless you’re looking in a mirror Cause it’s about the time for you to see clearly, that you are who you are and who you’ve been looking for.
And that empty feeling you got, that hole in your chest, you only got that feeling because you think you’re not blessed with everything you need.
Are you enough to fulfil all your needs?
You see we live in a consumer’s society in which we need to buy stuff. And the easiest way to sell it is to tell you that you’re not enough.
Buy a Mercedes you’ll get famous, buy a big huge house, become a doctor or an engineer, you’ll get a good girl/boy to marry. And we’ve seen it so much that we start believing in these lies. But the truth is, they make up their stall and make you feel prettier, then they makeup and you buy.
Stop feeling shittier about this lie they keep telling you that you are not enough. And what about the movies we watch? And the shows on the TV? The more you watch, the more you need others to complete yourself.
Love is the answer and it is the key but what about self-love? Isn’t it worthy? Also, if you can’t love yourself how can you ever love me? And loving yourself doesn’t mean selfies, millions of Instagram followers or lakhs of Facebook friends! Popularity is materialistic. Because the more you think about it the more it feels weird.
There is always a thought that self-love is something to be feared. No, it is the most beautiful feeling. Admiring your own self is way better than compromising for people who do not think of you even once in a day.
We’ve been taught that arrogance is bad, but above all do people know what we suffered? Do they realize that our arrogance is just a by-product of the frustrations we have? No! A big no!
So, when people do not know you they’ll give you a bunch of advises. But you need to decide. Ask yourself, who is more important? People who don’t even know about your state of mind? Or you who can make yourself strong enough that no damn thing can break you?
You are supposed to love yourself, but how do you do that? Well, I have a trick. When you think something negative about yourself, answer back your mind with a strongest positive answer you can. Suppose you feel you’re dumb then answer back that I am a Brilliant person! If you think your weak answer back that you’re so strong that nobody dares to hurt you.
Give yourself the love, like you give to the once you love. Treat yourself wisely. The way you treat yourself decides the way others will treat you.
Look through your fears and you’ll find a beautiful creation of God named “YOU”. Look into the mirror. There you’ll realize that the only permanent person, the only one who can make you happy is right in front of you- it’s you; yourself.
Now slowly you start realizing that you are who you’ve been looking for. And that will be the time when you’ll need nobody to advise you. You’ll choose your own path, work on it and your success stories will be viral.
Effects of This verse on me:
It turned my view to look at myself. I did love myself, but after this verse I know myself. I realize that how beautiful self-love is. Its only you who can empower you. None other than yourself is going to be able to help you.
I came out much confident. I became much stronger- mentally and physically. I realized that my flaws make different. More than being perfect it is important to be “you”. I am perfect just the way I am. The only thing that needs to be changed is “nothing”.
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