The world We all are living in right now, what we see and what we seek, what our deepest desires and what our wildest dreams, those goals toward our life, relationships, people, and the world we live in. How much we and why exactly we care for these things. Our playful, innocent days and our dreamy, fantasy nights.
A new fresh day
Everyday ray of sunshine comes to the window and gives you another beautiful day, and you pass the day by doing your stuff but are you being alive? Most of this time like a pandemic when everyone has anxiety and feels lonely and broke financially.
Live with yourself.
We all know that humans seek other humans, humans can’t stay alone, the love, the care, the touch, and the smile, but it is also important that you feel good, trusted, happy and peaceful with yourself because it is easy to trust yourself when the whole world does, you do trust yourself when your parents, friends, and everyone does, but it is hard but also important that you trust yourself when no one does.
What is being alive?
Because all of this is part of being alive. Being alive is trusting yourself in challenges and hard times, and pass them, and being more strong, being alive is to feel sadness, sorrow, to feel excited about things, to feel happy with yourself, to feel peace where you living and people you are living with, to feel fear, to love again no matter how you hurt, to courage to love again, and to confess it, to get up and do what you like to do, to be who you want to be. To be brave enough to hit to the ground again to stand up again, to say people what they deserve to hear, to love people who don’t get love in their lives. Being alive is to face fears and stop someone’s tears.
“When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love.”
BY MARCUS AURELIUS
A life to live.
The thing is we have given a beautiful life and time but you are using it in not necessarily things that don’t need to take care of, and making things more difficult like they are not already. So, all you need to do is decide what your priority are, are you want to live your life or just passing days, just as you are half-dead, depressed, not so happy, not curious.
You know you changed, not living life the way you were, more lively and lovely, not knowing what to do anymore. But everyone has a chance to live better every day, to wake up to the whole new level of life and yourself if you want, to live again and to being alive again, to fall in love with yourself again, to do something that makes you and the world better, to spread love and stop hate for any different thing in someone, something, and someway.
Because until you realize it you become already dead and not knowing that you are filled with self-loathing and loneliness, which drive you to nothing.
What to do to stay alive
And the solution is also you. You are the one who can stand up for yourself in front of yourself, you have to fight for yourself with yourself, you have to start care for you and feel your pain and you’re loved once, then and after that, you can feel happiness. You need to stop being so serious and take yourself and your life so serious. It’s life not war, it’s ok to not having everything, it’s ok to cry, it’s ok to be crazier to enjoy.
We all know that life is unfair and hard, but we are the ones who can change the whole situation by our actions, we all don’t like some people at some point, but by the time we will get to know how to deal with them. Just like that, we know how to handle life on bad days.
“Don’t ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive, and then go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.”
Howard Thurman
So, just don’t stop where you get broke, get up, and start living your life, start living, doing what your heart wants and make your soul happy, to be with who make your smile bigger and you better, and appreciate who you are and what you what to be.
There some questions you can ask yourself to know are you alive.
- Do you have a purpose in life? And happy about your work, not just because of money.
- Are you doing anything kind? No matter how small it is.
- Are you excited about new things in life? To explore more in this beautiful world.
- Do you want to be someone who you are not now? Are you even happy with your current self, do need to accept yourself?
- Are you happy with the people and place you are living with right now?